I need an Itinerary for 4days/3nights in Hong Kong. Please help me on how to maximize my stay.

Me and my husband are planning to visit HongKong next month. But since it's my first time to travel in Hong Kong, I really don't have any idea on how and where to go.

We will be arriving in Hong Kong at about 11:00AM on March 6, 2012.
Then our hotel is in Tai Kok Tsui.

We want to Visit the following Attractions:
-DisneyLand
-Madame Tussauds (Victoria Harbour/Peak at night)
-Ocean Park
-Avenue of Stars
-Sky Terraces
-Star ferry
- Symphony of Lights
- Shopping places (ex. ladies night market Mongkok)
-Ngong Ping 360 Cable car (lantau island)
-Giant Buddha
-TST Museums ( space museums, museum of arts, science museum, HK museum of history)
-MACAU Tour for one day

Day 1: We'll have our tour guide so this day is set. I think we will have city tour and Disneyland until night. After that, back to the hotel. If we still have time, which place we can go?

Day 2: This day I need help, no idea which place we should go first..

Day 3: Visit Macau for the whole day. then at night, hope there is still place that we can hang-out.

Day 4: I need help for this day.. still free in the morning and afternoon...

Please suggest length of stay, fare involve and the best way to reach in the said area.
By the way, my flight is 9:45PM on March 9, 2012.

Hope you can help me please. Thanks!

I'm looking forward for your reply.